Friday, January 6, 2012

Who do I Admire?

There really is no one person that I would pattern my communication skills after but rather a group of individuals that each have a quality I like.

The first would be my mom. She know when to stand up for my brother and I and when to set us free.  She has told teachers they are wrong about us and to look at the facts before judging her or her children.  She gave us the gift to speak our mind when needed and to know when to be respectful of our thought and others.  Next, would be the pastor of our church. For getting up every Sunday morning and speaking in front of the congregation.  He holds my attention as well as that of my daughters.  He know how to sprinkle the sermon with humor and information to get the message across for the week.  Finally, one of my professor I had in the BA program I graduated from.  She spoke her mind and had no trouble calling us out to support or fact but was sensitive enough to know when we needed a break and to cool off or pull ourselves together. Her class was one that explored our feelings about us and our lives that we had lived.


As I look at each of these people that have come into my life I hope that as I continue to gain more experience in my communication skill I can take each of the peoples characteristic and make them mine.      

3 comments:

  1. Thanks Laury for your insights. I applaud your mom for giving you the gift of speaking your mind, at the appropriate times. This is so instrumental and not many know when and how to use it. I am sure your professor helped those taught by showing sensitivity while giving constructive criticism.

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  2. Laury, I enjoyed that you have a number of people that you admire with regards to their communication skills. Lovely that your mom has been such a great role model. I think it is great to have more than one person as inspiration as each person offers something unique to you.
    Tamara

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  3. Laury, your examples are great and your mom sounds wonderful. I appreciate the example of your teacher because she had to read the nonverbal clues to know when her audience needed a break.

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